08-31-10

I met an older woman at the gym, 40, single, no kids. I'm 27. I ended up getting a job at the same company she works for, but she is a higher up, 6 figure lady and now we're hanging out quite a bit. We both know I'm with this company temporarily as a stepping stone, but not sure if I should ask her out. She'll stop by my desk and say things like hope to see you later in cycle class. I would be fine with any type of relationship with this woman, whether it be intimate or just as friends, because she's one of the coolest (and most beautiful) women I've ever met.

Flirting or Friendly?
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08-10-10

I'm on my 3rd date with this girl. At the restaurant, she said her steak had too much fat. When our waitress came to the table, she demanded to talk to the manager. The manager was nice and tried to accomodate her with a free meal and the girl said stuff like, "I'm so over it" and she was very rude to the manager. I was so embarassed and can't help but think she may be really picky about a lot of things.

Should I run now or is there a chance it's just food that sets her off?
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07-27-10

Met my guy about a month ago and have spent every weekend together until this. My stepfather just died and I asked my boyfriend to go with me to the funeral. He said no, he can't stand funerals, especially people he doesn't know, and it's a really long drive. I'm really disappointed and wondering if he can't support me now in something like this, how's it going to be when we're serious.

Is he a selfish jerk or what?
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5-25-10

I'm in a bit of a pickle, I just came to that point in my life where I'm responsible for my elderly dad and I've been on and off with a great guy for several years. His job is transferring him to Texaas and he asked me to go with him, before I had these family issues. If I abandon my dad I'll never forgive myself and possibly resent him for it. So...what would you do?

Which is more important...my family or my happiness?
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04-27-10

I've never been married and no kids. I've been dating a guy for 2 years who wants to get more serious. He is a widower with 3 kids 10-16. We've talked about them moving into my house since it's big enough, but I'm concerned cause his kids are wild! They run around, breaking things, aren't accountable for their actions and since he doesn't really discipline them I have a feeling I would end up with that job and that's probably not a good role for me to take? I know this sounds harsh, but I'm just trying to think about what's best for the children.

Hope from Bixby

Should we just move in together?
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04-13-10 Dear Dave and Nina,

I'm single and looked up an old girlfriend of mine, which I haven't talked to in 10 years. Luckily, I found her on MySpace. I wanted to see if we still had any chemistry. I emailed her and now we're talking nearly everyday. When I called, I got good news and bad news. The good news is she's single, and the bad news is she's 5 month pregnant. Dump or Date her?

Tim from Jenks

If you had a second chance with someone you regretted leaving, would you take them back no matter what situation they were in now?
	Dump - there's a reason she's single and pregnant and you don't need the baggage.
	Date - a chance at being with your lost love again.
	Reverse Dump - he's asking if he should be with her just because she's prego?
	Double Dump - there's a reason why they didn't stay together the first time.

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I trained this girl at work who brags about how great her fiance is. He has a specific day every month that is dedicated 2 her 2 show his appreciation of her. This wk, he brought ME flowers as a thank u 4 taking MY time2 train his fiance. Too nice?
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I met my bf a few months ago and it's been great. We are different races and we have to get his mother's approval to get married. He knows she won't approve of me (his younger brother just went through this) and feels as the eldest he has to do the right thing for his family. He has a couple of years to go before he decides whether to go back to Iraq and marry his mother's choice or stay here and work.

Am I stupid for wanting to be with him anyway, til he has to leave?
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My boyfriend has his ex on his pg. They've been divorced for 10 yrs, got divorced because he cheated on her. She doesn't live in OK anymore, no kids, and he says they're friends because of being in the same career field.
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I've been dating this guy I met online for a few weeks adn we have great chemistry. Last night, we were at his house and he showed me his basement. Turns out, he likes these science fiction board games and has a whole room full of miniature game pieces, like dragons that he built and painted himself.

I am freaked out, he said that's how he and his friends relax, but I would be embarassed for other people to see this room. Not my thing...
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I'm getting married soon. He is sensitive, attentive, handsome and financially stable. But he's a MAMA'S BOY! His mom brings him meals every day, calls him twice a day and he has a picture of mom on his nightstand. I'm starting to freak out...

How do you deal with a mama's boy for the rest of your life?
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I'm a single mom and just started dating again. I have a really good time with this guy I've been seeing for a couple months and am very attracted to him, but we haven't taken it to the next level yet. He tries and I want to, but I told him we need to be exclusive if we take it to the next level.

Do I just keep waiting until he decides we're exclusive or should I move on?
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He's been divorced over 1yr, has joint custody of his son, but ex is moving to Colorado and now fighting for custody. He said can't be n a serious relationship right now. I think we need 2 take a break, but don't want 2 lose him.
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My boyfriend visited friends out of town. They went 2 a massage parlor & got "VIP treatment". He told me about it & said how sorry he was & wud NEVER do it again. I'm so hurt, but relieved he came clean, and we just got engaged.
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I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 months and just found out she had an open relationship in her previous marriage, but doesn't want 2 do that anymore because of what it did to their marriage. Not sure what to expect...
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I've been dating my boyfriend over a year and for C-mas he gave me some pots and pans he won from work! I don't cook and I already have nice pots and pans. He cooks. How thoughtless and lazy.
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My boyfriend and I have a rule that he can't have girlfriends. We've been dating 7 months and at first, I noticed his "friends" always crossed the line. Once when he was out with them, one of them kissed him. Another time one tried to get him to go skinny dipping and yet another one has him come over to fix things around her house all the time. When we talked about it, he admitted that they were friends with benefits before me. So now, he has a new girl "Friend" he met during the snow storm. She got stranded and he helped her out. She texts him alot, asking him to go to lunch so she can thank him, or tries to get us all together. When I asked him to stop texting her, he said she was truly just a friend.

It's not that I don't trust him, it's the girls I don't trust and he can't seem to under stand that.
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I went to a Tulsa Oilers Hockey game with my boyfriend and girlfriend. I went to get a drink and when I came back, I C them kissing on the big screen TV. He says he didn't know what 2 do, the camera was catching couples kissing so they kissed quick
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We just got engaged, 2nd marriage for both so we're not making a big deal about it. My family lives out of state and he'scoming with me for Thanksgiving, but they don't get along well. He's mad at me for wanting to wait to tell them.
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This girl stayed in a relationship with a guy she didn't really like because he gets great seats at OU football games and is taking her on a trip at season's end. Then she'll break up with him. Would you stay in ra elationship long after it's over?
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This couple have been together a few yrs, have a child together and r getting married this spring. He went to HS reunion a few months ago and hooked up w/his old girlfriend, then moved to Texas w/her 4 a month. Now back and wants to work it out.
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This girl's been dating a great guy for 7 months. He disappears for a week w/o a word. Finally tells her he's dealing w/ex taking his daughter away & PTSD from serving overseas. It's been a few weeks & they still haven't seen each other.
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A guy took a girl to the Cowboys game on their 3rd date. She drank 2 much & got into a fight w/another fan, causing them to get thrown out of the game. She apologized saying it must have been mix of alcohol & medicine. Should he go out w/her again?
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I've been sagging since I was 18, when I lost alot of weight. My boyfriend has been bugging me aobut getting an enhancement and has offered to help pay for it. He did lose weight when I teased him about his beer belly. Should I change for him?
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